How can we help?

Almost certainly not. Introductions happen when your traits and a place's needs genuinely overlap, and the best yeses take a little time. Chatting with Someo a bit more widens tomorrow's search.

Until you and a place have both said yes, nobody sees your contact details — not your phone, email, or exact address. Your date of birth is never shown to anyone.

Open your avatar → Account & settings and switch to "Taking a break" or "Hidden". It's instant, switching back is too, and it's never held against you.

Yes. On My picture, choose "Not quite — let's chat" and tell Someo what's off. You approve every version before places read it.

One small flat fee per published opportunity, live for 30 days, plus optional one-off pushes. No subscriptions, and people are never charged anything.

Every place is verified once before its first opportunity goes live, so people know it's real. It usually takes less than a day. Your draft is saved and waiting.

Yes — open Opportunities, pick the one, and change the facts, what it's about, or chat the traits through again. Unlisting and bringing it back (once) is there too.

Conversations only open when both of you have said yes. It's the rule that makes people comfortable being honest with Someo — and it means everyone you talk to actually wants to hear from you.

Someo reads what you tell it in chat to draft traits and a short description. You approve the words before anyone sees them, and you can ask a person to review any outcome — see our privacy policy.